Sorry for delay in posts recently. HE's back and we've been pretty busy catching up wth each other and also planning for our coming US trip NEXT WEEK!!! So many plans ahead. Can't wait for the long holiday to arrive and the places we are going to visit.
Yesterday stupid HIM surprised me with two stuff toy bought for me during HIS trip in China. HE secretly placed them with my other stuff toys in my cabinet and waited for me to find them. Well, guess HE forgotten that HIS girlfriend is "blind" (like what HE always say of me). HE waited and waited until to a point HE cannot take it already HE told me "You haven't notice something new in your room?"
I turned around and looked at my cabinet
That's when then I noticed them!!!!
Smiled so widely when I see them! hehe. Probably I might look like Pucca for that moment.SO HAPPY and HIMa face like Garu 's as usual, EXPRESSIONLESS. hee. Here's a close up shot of them (see below)
Today my day was brightened up by a sms from HIM. HE, who seldom dream, actually sent me an sms telling me that HE dreamt of a carnival full of POOKY (My favourite, Garfield's Teddy Bear) ! Hee. According to my dictionary: Pooky =ME, Carnival = Fun & full of happiness. Together you get the whole idea of "Having me around is so MUCH happiness" (Bleah, this is my interpretation). Then as what girls like to do, I start to wonder why HE has such a dream. I came up with several possible explanations...
1) HE's thinking very hard of how to get a pooky for my birthday this year. (*Hint hint* you better start preparing now!! Though yours is coming even sooner and I still don't know what to get for you. Probably you can write a post and hint me what you want?)
2) Carnival... Probably HE is trying to think of surprising me or want to bring me to somewhere fun? (Er...on 2nd thoughts...FAT HOPE)
3) On the other hand, Dreammoods.com wrote: Carnival represents falsehood and deceptions; Teddy bears signifies the need for reassurance and being taken care. (Erm.. you lacked care and concern from me?)
Alright not going to let my mind wander further, seems like nothing positive is coming out from it. I'll stick back to my first assumption and that makes me HAPPY!
After work the other day, my colleague and I were chatting on my our way back home, learnt quite a lot of things from her and also made me realized many things.
People management especially in relationship, be it working relationship, kinship, all have to be properly managed and not to be taken lightly. Just to clear any doubts, I'm not saying that, I'm not taking these human interaction processes seriously, but sometimes, when you are too overwhelmed by your own emotion, things just go out of control. So no matter what you do, calm down, think and then react. (Its normally more easily said than done)
Remember just few days ago, I was so upset and went complaining to HIM about some issues, wanting to be "sayang" (consoled). But unexpectedly, HE simply just come telling me that its the way I handle the issue that got a problem. HE then spent the next couple of hours explaining to me of what I should have done and what not to. I was resistant of his advice initially, but in the end, I did keep his advice at the back of my head, who knows when all these might come in handy right? Ha..
Well, all I can say is that, it did come in handy and for the better. Sometimes in life you cannot always have things going in your way, you have to give in a bit to get the more out of it. After the going 4 years with HIM, I can say that I have learnt a lot, though there is still so much more I can learn from HIM (maybe mahjong too?). I am always like a kid beside HIM... so I guess its about time this kid grows up and brings HIM less trouble... hee...