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Tuesday, February 26, 2008


The DREADED Question (for him)... the AFTERMATH



Some post results discussion for the poll on 17 FEB '08 - " The DREADED Question... for HIM" ...

SHE thinks...

Seems like the guys over here are a bit fearful of the word "marriage" eh? Commitment phobia? or just not ready for the question?
I guess most girls pose this question just to see if the guy actually have plans or do see a future in their path together. A question which probably the girl do not need a definite answer but at least just want a consolation and an added sense of security. Here are some possible negative scenarios:

HER: "Er... when are you planning to marry me huh?"

Answer 1 - " Huh.... Too early to say lah... "
(SHE thinks): He's not even sure if he is really into this relationship with me...

Answer 2- "Er.. I dunno..."

(SHE thinks): He can't even be bothered to plan of our future -SBC (Simply Bo Chup)... Would I even be secured with this kind of guy?

Answer 3- "Up to you lor..."

(SHE thinks): Alamak...Win liao lor... Is this just my one sided thinking only?!


A big NO NO!



HE thinks...

First of all, a big THANK YOU to those who have voted in this poll. The results are pretty even. Not surprising though. If I were to vote, I would have voted for all 5. These questions are not called dreaded questions for nothing. If you asked my opinion why the ladies lOVE to ask these questions, the answer is simple. To me, they just ENJOY it. Ok... just kidding. There could probably be thousand of reasons why they want to ask these questions... but one definite reason will have to be,

"They want to HEAR it from YOU... Yes. ONLY you!"

As much as you might think that actions speaks louder than words, what the girls really hope for is your assurance and there is no better way than telling her.

But WAIT!!! Before you start answering all her questions, think again... It's a trap!!! Just like how you fall into the "traps" when you sit for your examinations, this is worse... these are either right or wrong questions that you really cannot afford to make a mistake. If you did... good luck to you.

Here are some tips that I can offer you guys out there based on personal experiences.

(Disclaimer: Really, usefulness of the tips depends on the type of girl you are handling with. I have no responsibility, whatsoever, if the tips does not work.)

Personally, I will categorized all these 5 questions into the same group. Let's call it "death note". When you receive a death note, how and what you answer is very VERY important. Take for example, when she asked: "Do you love me?"

Scenario 1 - "Yes!" (Answering almost immediately). Wrong, wrong, wrong! Replying instantly will only make her think that you never put much thought into the question and you are just trying to stop her from bothering you, meaning... she will only bother you more.

Scenario 2 - "Of cos!" (After thinking about 2 seconds and followed by a hug). This is probably the best. First, you gave her the answer you want and secondly, you gave her the touch and attention she yearn for. Well done!

Scenario 3 - "... yar..." (After thinking for some time...). That's it! You mean you still need to think?! Even if you really need to, answer first then go and think. Give her the answer she wants to make her happy first if you don't want any trouble later.

Scenario 4 - "This kind of thing still need to answer meh? What do you think?" This is not the best, but probably the safest answer. Firstly, it gives you time to react after you shoot the question back. Secondly, when she ask this kind of question, she probably already have an answer, so by asking her back, she will naturally take the best answer she wants to hear.

Scenario 5 - "No!" (Sarcastically). This is actually my favourite answer. haha... almost as good as not answering. But hopefully she will get the hint that she should not be asking these kind of question at all.

Well... hopefully it helps. If all else fails, give her a kiss on the lips. I am sure that will stop her from asking. haha... I am good. A death note doesn't bother me...

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