Thursday, May 1, 2008
HIM: My Teacher in Life
After work the other day, my colleague and I were chatting on my our way back home, learnt quite a lot of things from her and also made me realized many things.People management especially in relationship, be it working relationship, kinship, all have to be properly managed and not to be taken lightly. Just to clear any doubts, I'm not saying that, I'm not taking these human interaction processes seriously, but sometimes, when you are too overwhelmed by your own emotion, things just go out of control. So no matter what you do, calm down, think and then react. (Its normally more easily said than done)Remember just few days ago, I was so upset and went complaining to HIM about some issues, wanting to be "sayang" (consoled). But unexpectedly, HE simply just come telling me that its the way I handle the issue that got a problem. HE then spent the next couple of hours explaining to me of what I should have done and what not to. I was resistant of his advice initially, but in the end, I did keep his advice at the back of my head, who knows when all these might come in handy right? Ha..Well, all I can say is that, it did come in handy and for the better. Sometimes in life you cannot always have things going in your way, you have to give in a bit to get the more out of it. After the going 4 years with HIM, I can say that I have learnt a lot, though there is still so much more I can learn from HIM (maybe mahjong too?). I am always like a kid beside HIM... so I guess its about time this kid grows up and brings HIM less trouble... hee...Labels: livin, management, people, post, relationship, together
2:30 PM
After work the other day, my colleague and I were chatting on my our way back home, learnt quite a lot of things from her and also made me realized many things.
