Thursday, March 27, 2008
My LOVE "Test" for HIM
I have friends coming up to me and asking me how to know whether a person likes you or not. Hmm... I was stumped for a moment as I have never really given much thought as to how... Come to think of it, how do I know if SHE is the one...After thinking for some time, I came to a conclusion that there is no way for one to determine whether he or she likes you unless you want to go to the extreme of "dying" for love (Seriously not recommended). To me, it is more of an indescribable feeling that comes to you naturally and just wouldn't go away. (Note that the emphasis is on the "wouldn't go away" part... if it goes away too easily, that's probably just a moment of infatuation.) You will feel a kind of strong attraction that you cannot avoid or prevent. Somehow, yes... somehow, you will know, thats LOVE. So now that you know you really like that person, how do you know if she has the same affection to you? 
Try taking the daisy test or alternatively, here are some techniques which I have sort of acquire and hopefully it helps:1) Play the disappearing act. Now that you and your potential partner has been meeting up each other for "dates", talking on the phone for hours and exceeding those free smses for your handphone plan, one good way to know if you really matter to her is to vanish. Stop even your phone calls and smses. After which, all you need to do now is to wait and see if she contacts you. Let her feel your absence and see if it is bothering her. Try to get hints form the smses or the phone calls to assess how much you think she likes you. You are definitely on the road to success from then on... Worst Case Scenario: She disappeared along with you. 2 possibilities here. either your girl really don't bother about you, or she is playing hard to get. Then you better try hard, to get.2) Let her take the initiative. As gentlemanly as you are, one good way of testing the girl is to let her take the initiative to ask you out, or even small gestures like calling you or a "good night" message can mean lots. See how much the girl rely on your company. Of cos, the more she takes the initiative, the better for you.Worst Case Scenario: The girl is equally unsure about your feelings to her and decides to wait for you to respond or she is just too shy and could not get your hint. In that case, please continue to be the gentleman that you are.3) Try means to probe information as to whether or not she likes you. Talk about the kind of girl you like and ask for the type of guy he likes and stuff like that. Jokingly ask if she might even consider you if you are placed along side Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise (Ok... take it as they are not married and still as charming.) You might be surprise by her responses and hopefully you can grasp some information or come to a conclusion that, yes, she likes you.Worst Case Scenario: The girl says she treats you like a brother. GAME OVER Dude! The only way to continue the game is to continue showering her with care and concern to touch her and hopefully she might just change her mind. 4) Plant spy to dig info from her. Nothing better than getting her girlfriends or your buddy to help you ask straight in the face whether or not she is interested in you. That is provided you can bribe either one of them to do it.Worst Case Scenario: You end up falling in love with the girl who has been helping you or vice versa. Somehow I just feel that its not right...Well... these are the few that I can think of at the moment. Feel free to contribute... Labels: case, livin, love, post, scenario, test, together, worst
8:43 PM
I have friends coming up to me and asking me how to know whether a person likes you or not. Hmm... I was stumped for a moment as I have never really given much thought as to how... Come to think of it, how do I know if SHE is the one...
