Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Chance or Choice?
A friend of mine wrote this article which I thought I should share with everyone. This really got me thinking the first time I read it. For people out there who are thinking of whether you have met the right person, hope that it helps.CHOICE AND CHANCE
When we meet the right person to love when we are at the right place, at the right time, that's not a choice. That's CHANCE. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's CHANCE. Being caught up in a moment, this is not a choice. That's CHANCE.
The difference is, what happens afterwards?
When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and then contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love the person, even with his faults, that's not chance. That's CHOICE. When you choose to be with a person no matter what, that's not chance. That's CHOICE. Even if you know that there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than him or her, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's not chance. That's CHOICE.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by CHANCE. But true love that last is truly a CHOICE. A choice that we make...
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."
I believe that soulmates do exist, that there is truly someone made for you. But eventually, it is still up to you to make the choice. We may meet our soulmates by CHANCE, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a CHOICE we have to make.
"You can only see the true colors of a human if you taste its heart."
Hopefully this short passage brought some insights to you out there who are still waiting for that chance to come by or thinking of whether to make that choice.
I made mine ... so what's yours?
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5:48 PM
A friend of mine wrote this article which I thought I should share with everyone. This really got me thinking the first time I read it. For people out there who are thinking of whether you have met the right person, hope that it helps.
