Today, I will give you my most honest opinions and explore this 2 questions in my own perspectives (only mine) and hopefully it can give you an insight to the alien mind of the opposite sex.
WHAT MAN REALLY THINKS... (For WOMAN)
HE says: "With me around, everyday is Valentine's Day."
Ladies... if you find yourself hearing this often, have faith that your MAN has already thought through and taken great pains to make this coming Valentine's Day a special one for you. How else can you explain the sudden emergence of boutiques and gifts 1 month before the actual day? Well... The most probable reason why a MAN says that is because he is worried to disappoint you as he fully understands how important this day is, not just to you, but also to him and most importantly, it is OUR Valentine's Day. Hence be appreciative of whatever he has planned or prepared and take heart that he did this all just for you and you alone.
A MAN will often appear strong and certain yet many a times, under this mask, he is sometimes unsure about what he should do especially when it involves you. The fear of failure is many a times, too much to handle. However, TRUST that he wants the best and only the BEST for you. A little encouragement and confidence boosting can go a long way.
In a nut shell, if they is one thing that the MAN really wants you to know, it has to be how much he cares and that he really LOVES you. A lot of things cannot be expressed merely by words and LOVE is one of them. He might not say it but you can definitely FEEL it.
Feel LOVED...
WHAT WOMAN REALLY THINKS... (For MAN)
HE says: "With me around, everyday is Valentine's Day."
Guys... be REAL! More than often this is used as an excuse for your own incompetence to come up with something this Valentine's Day or to console yourself that what you have planned is sufficient. As much as your partner or I will agree with this statement, THINK again.
Yes! With you around, everyday is V-Day but today is the V-Day of all V-Days. Today IS the day. It is important to note that despite Valentine's Day being just another day, it is the day for you to show her how much you really care and how high she ranks in your heart. It is human instinct to compare, especially when her girlfriends start to chat about it. Your WOMAN needs to FEEL loved which is why a small stalk of flower can go a long way.
If you ever wondered why a WOMAN always ask you whether or not you love her, she means it. She NEEDS your attention. A sms now and then, a phone call, a reassuring touch, a light peck on the cheek are some of the the bare minimum you can do to lessen that feeling of insecurity in her. When she has problems, she wants someone to be there to listen. When she is sad, she wants someone to be there to accompany her. When she is happy, she wants someone to share the joy with her.
The bottomline is to always be there for her. You may not need to tell her how much you love her but you must definitely make her feel how much you really do.
Feel LOVED...
I am sure that many of you out there have your own thoughts and feelings regarding this. Do share your views with everyone. Everyday's a unique journey. Isn't it?
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